#1 If you did favors for a friend of yours, and they never thanked you or only thanked you once in a blue moon, how should that be taken?
#2 Okay, another scenerio... If your friend thanks you, but you only occasionally say "your welcome", how should he/she take that?
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Ooh...tough questions. To be honest, I would probably be a bit disappointed at not getting a "thank you" from a friend who I repeatedly helped. However, I don't think (or I hope I would not) require a "thank you" for my help. Hopefully I would want to help for the sake of helping...being that this person is my friend.
As for the second question, I think the same stuff I wrote above would apply for my answer here.
But I think it goes without saying that "YOU'RE WELCOME" and "THANK YOU" should be said.
THANK YOU, Richard for all your EXCELLENT POSTINGS!!!!! =)
Thank you Richard,
You're welcome!
Are you talking about me?!? I'm so offended.... ;)
Hmm...I think most of the time, between VERY good friends, it's pretty much implied. Especially if it's a two way street (although with your talents, it's probably hard to be a two way street). BUT, a thank you is ALWAYS appreciated! And I wouldn't be offended in the least if I got a "you're welcome". That acknowledges your thank you.
Huh? Are these the things doctors think about?!
Yes, even doctors/men are sensitive people... We have a variety of conversations in the OR when are hands are tied up and our gowns get warm, and claustrophobia sets in. So, be aware, more weird posts to come.... :)
Politeness and manners go a long way in this world. I think of all the patients I have taken care of over the years...and how much MORE willing I am to do for those that say "thank you". It naturally motivates me to go the extra mile.
I don't think you can say it too much. Ever.
Between friends...if you are both comfortable with the way things are handled, then I don't think it is a big deal. BUT, if one is "unsatisfied" with the level of politeness, then perhaps a gentle reminder is in order.
Who knew that you were such a deep thinker. If your Senior had ever let you operate you might not have been able to discover this side of yourself. It pays to be patient. Thanks for all that you do!
Gratitude is the least of virtues and ingratitude the worst of vices.
How hard is it to say "thank you?" How hard is it to say "you're welcome?" Common courtesies.
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